BY ALEXANDER FULOP
RANG THE DOORBELL.� SHE CAME TO THE door, but when she saw a harmonica in
my hand she ran inside. Does she not want to hear a Christmas carol?
I asked myself. Why did she leave the inner door open? Maybe she went to
get someone else to come and listen to me play.
Another year, and again I went to play my harmonica for my neighbors during
the Christmas season. I confidently opened the storm door and stepped inside
and began to play. Soon the woman returned with her husband and her mother.
With a big smile on her face she motioned for me to come in and sit down.
They knew me well. I had been their neighbor for several years. Her mother
was visiting for the holidays. "Can I offer you something?" she asked. "A cookie or something to drink?"
"A glass of water would be
lovely," I said. They knew that I
was a Seventh-day Adventist Christian and that I don't
drink anything with alcohol. She brought a glass of ice water. Later she told
me that she didn't
want to miss my music. Although the weather was very cold outside, I felt warm
just from their hospitality.
Her husband suddenly spoke up. "Alex, do you remember the
first time you came to our house, about four years ago? You really frightened
us. We were all in the car ready to drive away when you came walking up our
driveway," he remembered. "We saw you put your hand into
your pocket and pull out something shiny. In the darkness I wondered what you
were reaching for. I quickly put up the window, not knowing what to expect,
since we were fairly new in this neighborhood. Imagine our pleasant surprise
when you took that shiny object and put it to your mouth, and out came beautiful Christmas music."
I began to laugh. "You never told me that before.
Are you serious? Is that true?"
"Yes, I am serious. That's what I really thought."
We all had a good laugh, and I promised not to frighten them
again. After a very friendly visit I was soon on my way to the next house.
A Muslim family lives there. I knew they did not celebrate Christmas, yet I
was praying that the Lord would give me guidance on how to approach these neighbors.
How could I reach them for Christ? I felt impressed to visit this family. When
the woman answered my knock I said, "I know that you do not celebrate Christmas."
Still, she was friendly and invited me in. Her husband joined us. He said,
"We like Christmas
music, and we'd love
to hear you play. We were just listening to some Christmas music before you Came. Please play for us."
I played two Christmas carols and then stayed for a short while and had a wonderful
visit with them. As I was preparing to leave, the husband said, "Please
pray for us, and come again anytime and let us talk more." I promised I would.
My next visit was to Dan's house. When I finished "O Come, All Ye Faithful" and "O Christmas Tree," he
invited me in.
"Alex, I want to tell you something," he said. He led me into the
kitchen and, as he turned over the burgers in the oven, explained that he was
preparing supper for his son and himself. Dan was a board member of the Homeowners
Association; I am the Neighborhood Watch coordinator. He had missed our last
meeting, and I had detected that something was not quite right with him. I was
glad to have found him home, because my four previous attempts to visit him
had been fruitless. I had even tried, unsuccessfully, to find him at his fast-food
store. He was a busy man, and I was glad to see him that night.
"Alex, I might as well tell
you that I have some bad news,"
he began. "My wife
left me a few months ago, and now my son visits me every second week. When I Come home at night, the house is so empty except when he is here. It is so hard
to be alone."
My heart went out to him, and I nodded with understanding. Then I talked to
him about God's love,
how God sent His Son to the earth, and that is the reason we celebrate the Christmas
season. I assured him that God understands and knows each one of us. He is always
available in our time of need—all we have to do is ask for
His comfort and help.
"Do you believe in prayer?" I asked him.
"Yes, I do. I too am a Christian," he responded.
I asked if I might pray with him. Afterward we embraced as, with tears in his
eyes, he thanked me for my prayer. I reminded him that we all need to pray to
God for strength and guidance every day, whether life is going well or whether
we are having problems. He heartily agreed and said, "Alex, you continue to pray for me,
and I will pray for you." I left his home and prayed
as I walked to the next door. "Lord,
help me to know what to do for Dan. I may not be able to mend his home, but
You can!"
At the next house my neighbor said, "Those neighbors over there
are waiting for you. They have lots of company, but they all want to hear you
play your harmonica, so go on in."
She was right about lots of people—there
were almost 30 people waiting for me.
"Alex, we're
so glad you came to play again,"
said the host. She offered me some cookies and drink, but since I can't play a harmonica while eating
or drinking, I politely declined and began to play. Everyone was very appreciative.
As I left I shouted happily, "Merry Christmas! And don't
forget the Christ in Christmas!"
Among the many others I played for that night were Craig and Joan, a couple
in their 40s with a son about 13 years of age. They had just bought their house,
and it needed some renovation. The contractor they hired happened to be a Seventh-day
Adventist. With two of their close neighbors as Seventh-day Adventists, they
had been exposed to the Adventist Church and seemed to be receptive. They readily
welcomed me into their home and attentively listened to the melodies.
When I finished playing for them Joan said, "We'd
like to go to your church sometime, but right now it would be hard. You see,
we have two elderly women who stay with us, and one of the ladies broke her
back. We just can't
get out much."
After a short pause I responded, "I have an idea that might
work. If you folks cannot come to church, how would it be if the church came
to your home? We have a very structured Bible-centered study program called
Sabbath school. I can get you some study guides, and then we can come to your
home every week and study together."
They seemed happy with the plan. We started a branch Sabbath school in their
home in January.
I know the Lord has heard my daily prayer as I ask Him for spiritual guidance.
I ask Him to help me know how I can be a witness to the people who are my neighbors.
He has answered this prayer in a very real and wonderful way. I have just had
the most wonderful Christmas of my life.
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Alexander S. Fulop is retired from State University of New York, Health
Science Center, Brooklyn, New York.