BY ATUANYA CHEATHAM
WILL NOT ALLOW ANY WHITE FOLKS OR you to disrespect me
in my church!" Although he had not physically moved from his
seat, his anger seemed to leap out at me across the desk. His eyes were an inferno.
I was astonished--not to mention terribly intimidated--by the pastor's reaction.
I couldn't believe that he was allowing his personal prejudices to hinder him
from supporting an awesome opportunity in ministry; I wasn't even interested
in money.
Fifteen minutes earlier I had flitted into his office eager
to share about and solicit his help for a new Adventist student organization
being started on a local public university campus. Several of the organization's
students, including myself, were members at his church, so I felt sure of his
support. In fact, another Adventist church across town and their conference,
I reported, already thought it was a great idea and were lending their financial
and spiritual backing. "This student organization," I concluded, "could
be both your baby." And that's when it all spilled out.
The pastor had lived in the U.S. South during the forties, fifties,
and sixties. He'd served in the military and witnessed segregation and integration,
and he'd experienced cruelty and abuse at the hands and manipulations of Whites.
The same "good-ol'-boy" system was alive and well in the Adventist
Church, too, he informed me vehemently. And then, I had the audacity to come
into his office with yet another (I'd been there before with some other "unity"
ideas that he had previously shot down with better reserve) program to help
White people undermine a Black man? He not too kindly implied that I should
be careful not to let the door hit me on the way out.
An Ugly Reality
I wish I could say that in my 29 years of life that was the first time I'd come
across racism in the church, but it wasn't. Racism is an ugly reality that often
reminds me that while Adventism has the perfect message, it is made up of imperfect
people who are a part of and shaped by the imperfect world in which we live.
Nevertheless, facing racism is something that challenges all of us on an extremely
personal level--and not just as Adventist Christians but simply as people, as
citizens of nations and members of racial and ethnic groups. It is a subject
that people in the secular world have a difficult time discussing, and one that
we tend to sidestep in the church for fear that it will disrupt the status quo
and force us to deal with some very uncomfortable and un-Christlike issues and
practices.
As a public school educator, I have noticed that many textbooks
are undergoing revision in an attempt to make the curriculum appear more multicultural
and diverse. Martin Luther King, Jr., Day events in many schools emphasize the
importance of tolerance and how hurtful it can be to discriminate against others
simply based on skin color. "Underneath, we are all the same" seems
to be the overriding message. And it's a good start.
However, racism tends to have about as much to do with race
as sexism has to do with sex, or classism with breeding. Racism, like the other
two, has to do with power and privilege, and more specifically, gaining and/or
maintaining that power and privilege for myself. Race and physical attributes
are simply the arbitrary demarcations of who should have power and who should
not. Sexism offers power and privilege by sex, classism by birth and socioeconomic
status. Ageism dishes it out by age. In each of these "-isms," power
and privilege are reserved for those who have the "luck of the draw."
No one can choose their sex, their family, their skin color, or how old or young
they are. Racism, like these other dividing ills, is sin because it uplifts
and caters to self, while denigrating and marginalizing others. It is the same
spirit that inspired Satan's rebellion in heaven from the very beginning--more
for me and less or nothing for you.
This selfish spirit has inspired a plethora of painful human
atrocities and injustices around the world that will not be fully healed until
Christ returns. However, wounds that are not tended to and given some form of
healing treatment fester and debilitate the entire body. Racism is a deep, gushing
wound that we cannot afford to neglect in hopes that it will just go away. It
is going to take direct and decisive action, time, and some uncomfortable soul-searching
and prayer before God can truly begin to heal the division that continues to
hurt us.
Step 1: Recognize racism and the roles we play in its continuation.
Regardless of what we know to be the correct view of others, we are
all products, to some degree, of our upbringing and the societies in which we
dwell. While many of us are not guilty of overtly racist beliefs or actions,
it may be unsettling to discover that we do harbor subtle prejudices and stereotypes
about people based on race and ethnicity. Sometimes those subconscious assumptions
are positive, and sometimes they are negative.
Many ethnic minorities and immigrant groups falsely believe
that they are not and cannot be racist, because they automatically assume they
are the marginalized, victimized, or oppressed to some degree. They think that
their feelings, beliefs, and reactions to overt and subtle racism are justified.
That is not true. Regardless of our treatment on earth, Christ admonishes us
to "love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that
hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you" (Matt. 5:44). He
knew that a spirit of vengeance and hatred would destroy just as surely as the
prejudice that inspired it. We may not control how others treat us, but we can
always decide how we will respond.
On the other hand, many who belong to the majority culture are
blinded by their own privilege and do not see the subtle nuances of racism around
them. One way I help my middle school students to begin to see things differently
is by asking them when they last attended an event at which they were the only
one of their ethnic group present and how they felt about it. Typically, only
one or two in a class of 30 students have ever had the experience, and it was
usually somewhat uncomfortable for them. My second challenge is to invite them
to look at the magazine racks in the grocery store checkout line or watch television
that evening to see how many racial minorities they come across, especially
racial minorities that are not fulfilling stereotypical roles, e.g., Blacks
and Hispanics as comics, rap/hip-hop stars, or athletes. Many of my students
do not think about race issues because they do not have to. Being a racial minority
is an occasional, if ever, choice for them, not a daily reality for survival.
These subtle and not-so-subtle realities exist in the church
as well. In the North American Division, many of our conferences, churches,
schools (primary, secondary, and tertiary), and evangelistic efforts are racially
(and financially) segregated in some way, and sometimes with the best of intentions.
In regions with large Hispanic populations there are disturbing debates regarding
the allocation of funds from more prosperous majority-culture congregations
with minimal church growth to financially struggling Spanish-speaking congregations
with exponential church growth.
Unfortunately, our habits of exclusion and inclusion, stereotypes
and assumptions, have become so second-nature to many of us, regardless of our
race and ethnicity, that we automatically stake our claims and move forward
with little regard to how selfish, separatist, and disunified we truly are.
Step 2: Have the courage to face our history for what it
is.
Many who live prosperously within mainstream society, regardless of their ethnicity,
are reluctant to look at history. "If we are to improve race relations,"
they state nervously, "let's just forget about the past and move on from
here." These notions are usually based on an uneasy and misplaced sense
of guilt and fear. However, here are a few things that we should all keep in
mind:
The Bible tells us that "all have sinned, and come short
of the glory of God" (Rom. 3:23). There is no race or culture or nationality
of people on this planet that has not committed some horrible crime against
God or humanity. In fact, almost every continent has had one huge kingdom or
dynasty that at one time or another ruled the then-known world, and during those
dominant reigns, absolute power corrupted absolutely. The atrocities committed
over the past 300 to 500 years, however, seem more horrendous to us because
their effects are still with us, but they are not any more horrible or terrible
than acts committed previously in history. We must remember that the true author
and perpetrator of human cruelty is not any one race or culture. It is Satan!
He is an equal opportunity employer of all people.
History highlights the decisions and actions of the majority
or the significantly different--not the individual. Not every White person
owned or wanted a slave; not every slave desired to be free. Not all American
colonists wanted to go to war with England. Not all Germans hated Jews. Just
as our current society is a varied and complex mix of people, even within groups
of supposed "sameness," it has always been so. Everything that occurs--good,
bad, or indifferent--does not reflect the decisions or actions of everyone.
History is a diverse and hybrid mix of many racial, cultural,
and ethnic backgrounds. While I faithfully check "African-American/Black"
whenever I complete an application and hail my allegiance to the African slaves
who labored in the United States for more than 200 years, my genetic code would
testify that I am also the descendant of White European landowners and dispossessed
Native Americans. The fingers of blame that I might be so eager to point at
others might be rightfully and justly pointed at me as well. Whether I am the
legitimate heir or not does not change the fact that I am just as much the descendant
of a possible oppressor as the White person sitting next to me. There are no
"pure breeds" in history.
Those who do not study their history are destined to repeat
it. Throughout the Bible God constantly commands His people to establish
holidays and erect physical reminders and monuments of their history. In addition,
I'm sure many of us have quickly flipped through chapters of genealogical "begats."
Both indicate that God believes that remembrance of history and our heritage
is important--and not just remembrance of history that paints us in a good light.
(1) God wanted to remind His people of who they were without Him and who they
were with Him; (2) He wanted to remind them of His love and grace and mercy
and goodness; and (3) He wanted them to learn from their mistakes.
We are not responsible for our forefathers' sins, but we
are responsible for what we do with what they have left us. While our forefathers
may or may not have been justified in how they obtained, developed, and created
the society in which we now live, we should be honest with ourselves in knowing
that it was not always by honest or honorable means. All of us, even descendants
of oppressed or victimized people, are living to some extent off the "ill-gotten"
gains of others. The idea of full restitution is unrealistic and impossible.
However, to continue living as though the privileges we now possess are rightfully
ours and have no conscientiousness toward those who have been unfairly disadvantaged
in some way is wrong. Otherwise, we are no better than the men and women who
obtained those privileges dishonorably to begin with.
Step 3: Forgive.
Before we can forgive others, we must first ask God to forgive us--to forgive
us for our own prejudices, biases, and attitudes; our own self-exaltations and
desires for power and control, especially at the expense of our brothers and
sisters in Christ.
Then we need to ask God to help us forgive others the same way
He forgives us. We must recognize and know that injustices will continue and
that there are going to be some wounds that will not fully heal until Christ
returns. We must continue to remind ourselves that the true culprit of racism
and oppression and injustice is not the man or woman deceived by and practicing
it, but Satan.
Step 4: Recognize that diversity does not equal division,
nor does it equal a melting pot.
Many people are threatened by the idea of diversity because they are afraid
of one of two things: (1) They live under the false belief that our current
existence is harmonious when it is not. These people are usually members of
(or participants in) the majority culture, and they are threatened by the idea
of becoming one of many rather than remaining the "norm" by which
all others must live. They fear a division that they are unaware already exists,
but one that would also displace them. (2) Similar to the first is a fear that
diversity would mean a loss of all the cherished distinctions that make each
ethnic, cultural, and racial group unique and beautiful. This second group is
usually made up of immigrant cultures as well as those who have realized a difficult
struggle to survive within a new nation. They tend to have a very strong identification
with their culture, their language, and their heritage, and are not ready to
sacrifice that to become some conglomerate, homogeneous whole.
The beauty of diversity is that God made it! God creates everything
uniquely; it is not His desire that we should all be the same. There are hundreds
of types of trees. They have some basic characteristics and needs that unite
them and make them the same, but their appearance, their functions, their locales,
and their specific needs are different. The same exists in everything on this
planet, and in the humanity God created.
God has designated that our unity be based on our common brotherhood
and love for Him, His for us, and ours for one another. We are all in need of
His saving grace and mercy. And yet, in our physical attributes, our locales,
our languages, our customs, our clothing, our ways of doing things, et cetera,
we are different. God intended it that way because He enjoys diversity. Like
a bouquet of flowers or a garden salad or an excellent painting, when our diversity
works together, both remaining distinct as well as mixing, something beautiful
emerges.
Enjoying and cherishing who God has made me ethnically does
not mean that I cannot celebrate and enjoy who God has made you ethnically.
Nor do I have to forfeit who I am to appreciate and participate in other cultures.
The blessing of diversity is that it fosters choice and inclusion of
everyone.
Step 5: Step outside our comfort zones.
Growth is uncomfortable, and bridge-building is not an easy task. If we wish
to draw closer to our brothers and sisters of varying cultures, we must make
deliberate choices to think and act outside of and beyond our personal norms.
We can start small by visiting different churches or doing research on another
culture at our local library. If your city has cultural fests or sections of
town dominated by a particular ethnic group, challenge yourself to attend or
spend a day in that area. Maybe we need to make an earnest effort to learn a
second language and practice it with native speakers.
On a grander scale, we should begin encouraging and planning
opportunities for unified worship, fellowship, and evangelistic efforts with
other sister churches. To do so, we will have to relinquish some of our preconceived
notions on what is "proper" music, worship, and even interaction--and
be sensitive and open to the fact that different does not equate to abnormal
or wrong. We will need to let go of the control we desire to have and allow
God to be in control.
Step 6: Become a patient teacher and learner.
Oftentimes our conditioned ignorance has set us at odds with members of different
ethnic groups. We simply know nothing about them, or worse, what we do know
about them is false and/or stereotypical. We all need to become avid learners,
but also patient teachers. Sometimes I am offended when people ask to touch
my hair or tell me that they speak Ebonics, but then I realize that most of
the time it is their ignorance that is speaking. I can get upset and prolong
their lack of knowledge, or I can turn it into a patient and loving teaching
moment.
Step 7: See people for the unique individuals they
are.
Our global economy, communications and technological networks, and migratory
patterns, as well as our histories--personal and national--have created more
ethnic and cultural realities and diversities than we can even number or imagine.
While I may share many ethnic and cultural attributes with one group of people,
I am just as likely to share other cultural, national, socioeconomic, and religious
characteristics of several other groups. We can no longer assume that people
possess certain beliefs/attributes/livelihoods based on their race, nationality,
and ethnicity. There are little Chinese girls being adopted by White Southerners
who grow up listening to the Dixie Chicks. There are Mexican-Americans who grow
up in Wyoming, don't speak Spanish or like tacos, and have never been to Mexico
in their lives. There are people who are biracial or triracial. All of us are
different, and as we meet new people, we need to focus on knowing them as individuals
rather than racial or ethnic categories.
Change Begins in the Individual
Unfortunately, we cannot always wait on church leadership to guide us toward
doing corporately what God has already commanded us to do personally. Many changes
are most effective when they begin in the convicted hearts and lives of individuals
who pray and ask God to grant them humble, loving, and obedient spirits.
The apostle Paul tells us that we "are all the children
of God by faith in Christ Jesus" (Gal. 3:26). That faith obliterates the
divisions created between Jew and Greek (racism), bond and free (classism),
male and female (sexism), and places all of us equally before the throne of
a loving Savior (verse 28).
In John 13:35 Jesus says, "By this shall all men know that
ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another." He didn't say that
going to church on Sabbath or being vegetarian would identify us as His people;
He said our mutual love for one another would set us apart. The world is used
to squabbling, division, and separatism. A religion that accepted, loved, and
collaborated with all people equally in action, not just in theory--that
would be phenomenally different! By God's grace and power, it can happen. By
God's grace and power, it must happen.
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Atuanya Cheatham, an English teacher and elder-in-training at the Breath
of Life church in Seattle, writes from Bonney Lake, Washington.