BY DE WITT S. WILLIAMS
IFE. THE STRUGGLE FOR IT CONSUMES us, the evidence
of it awes us, and the force of it moves us. We don’t always understand it,
but we are always grateful for it. When it seems as if the whole world is against
us, in the face of supreme loss when we are at our lowest point, we are still
alive. And with life there is always hope.
Although we rarely stop to consider it, life began
as a gift. God stooped low over the moist clay form of Adam and breathed into
his nostrils the breath of life. In that instant God gave Adam the first greatest
gift. He gave His breath, and with it life. Later Adam himself played a part
in extending the gift of life to another.
“While he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s
ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a woman from
the rib he had taken out of the man” (Gen. 2:21, 22, NIV).
A Whole New Life
In 1988 Nancy White and her husband, Alan, were
leaving Australia for a three-year stay in the United States. While getting
medical clearance Nancy learned that her kidneys were deteriorating. She had
known since 1970 that she had a hereditary condition known as polycystic kidney
disease. In all, eight female relatives had inherited the disease.
“You will probably be all right for 10 years,”
she was told, “but your kidneys are deteriorating.”
“Ten years” lasted about 18 months. In polycystic
kidney disease, cysts in the kidney grow and multiply until they take over and
the kidney loses its function. The kidney gets bigger, and the cysts erupt and
burst.
A Providence Shared
The most important tool we have for increasing the number of organ and tissue
donations each year is communication (for instance, the following information
could be used in your church bulletin). Transplantations save lives, but only
if you help. Say yes to organ and tissue donation on your donor card* and/or
driver’s license. In order to ensure that your wishes are followed, you must
talk to the members of your family. You can prevent them needless anguish by
letting them know how you feel today. God calls us to be careful and wise stewards
of all that He has given us, and that includes our bodies.
*Call 1-888-ASK-HRSA, internationally 800-TRIO-386, or visit www.organdonor.gov.
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She went on the kidney transplant list and stayed
there for about 10 months. Three people offered her the gift of one of their
kidneys. A donor has to match up in several areas to be considered a good match.
Unfortunately, for one reason or another, none of Nancy’s volunteers worked
out.
So Nancy was forced to go on peritoneal dialysis—done
through a tube inserted into her stomach. She performed the procedure 45 minutes
every four hours—every day. After enduring dialysis for nearly three years she
finally got the call.
“We have a kidney for you.”
It was early morning, she remembers, when she
flew in and was prepped. Then came an agonizing delay. The donor had multiple
health problems relating to alcoholism, and the kidney was large and scarred.
After weighing the risks, she decided to turn
down the kidney. “We prayed about it,” Nancy said, “and I just felt it wasn’t
right. It wasn’t really what was best.” Miraculously, five days later the call
came again. This time the transplant was a great success.
“It’s been a whole new life,” Nancy says. “I can’t
thank the Lord enough. I can’t thank the people who gave the permission, whether
it was the donor or his family, enough. So many people can save lives just by
thinking about it beforehand and discussing it with their families. I’m very
grateful.”
Seven years later she and her husband moved back
to Australia. But she took a piece of America back with her—the very best piece,
because someone had enough courage to give her the gift of life even in the
face of personal tragedy. They found a way to make sense of something senseless.
National Donor Sabbath
Death is a nontopic for most of us. We don’t want
to face it. We don’t want to talk about it. We certainly don’t want to plan
for it. We prefer to put it out of our minds until it’s absolutely necessary.
If we have filled out a donor card and discussed our choices with our family,
we can expect to have our wishes honored at our death. Unfortunately, few people
discuss their desire to become a donor with their families. They leave behind
them grieving loved ones who must make the decision without having the benefit
of knowing how the deceased felt about such things.
In the United States the Depart-ment of Health
and Human Services has designated November 9-11, 2001, as National Donor Sabbath.
Last year Congress passed a resolution to designate Thanksgiving Day as a day
to “Give Thanks, Give Life” and to discuss organ and tissue donation with other
family members. At this time the attention of the nation turns toward all that
we have to be thankful for. Families will gather to celebrate life and loved
ones. But some families will be gathered, not around a bountiful table, but
around the hospital bed of a loved one awaiting an organ or tissue transplant.
They will be praying for something to be thankful for. (For more information
about what to do on National Donor Sabbath, visit www.organdonor.gov and go
to Upcoming Events.)
There are more than 77,000 people on the national
waiting list who need an organ transplant. Thousands more need tissue transplants.
Of these, about 5,000 will die while they are waiting. They won’t die because
there are not enough organs. They will die because there aren’t enough people
willing to be donors.
Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, unless a kernel
of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if
it dies, it produces many seeds” (John 12:24, NIV). So too, our organs and tissue
help many people. A single donor can potentially provide organs, bone, and tissue
for up to 50 people (possibly more) who desperately need them. And in some cases
we can give the ultimate gift of our organs to a family member in need while
we are still alive.
The Gift of Life
My niece, Morraye Coleman, is someone who gladly
gave that gift. Her sister, Rachel Williams, lost the use of her kidneys because
of the debilitating effects of juvenile diabetes. “As soon as Rachel said she
needed my kidney I was willing,” says Morraye. “I prayed, ‘Lord, if my kidney
is a match, then it’s Your will.’ I didn’t have second thoughts.”
“It was a wonderful thing to do, a wonderful gift
of life,” says Rachel. “I know of those who have 12 and 13 siblings, and none
of them will volunteer to donate a kidney. And here I have only one sister,
who didn’t think twice about it. It goes to show you the enormity of the love
she has for me. I have two birthdays now. I celebrate the day I was born and
the day I received my second chance to live.”
Traditionally, Adventists have been very supportive
of organ transplants. Dr. Leonard Bailey and Loma Linda University Medical Center
in Loma Linda, California, have pioneered the field of infant heart transplants.
Although they are perhaps best known for their heart transplants, they perform
many other types of transplants as well. Transplantation is, in the very best
possible sense of the concept, a Samaritan act of charity. Organ donors literally
pull people back from the brink of the grave and hand them life.
In the eighth month of pregnancy Karen and Fred
Schouten learned their unborn baby girl had a condition known as anencephaly,
which meant that she would be born without a major part of her brain. If born
alive, she would be with them for a very short time. Fred and Karen decided
to allow their daughter to become a donor in hopes that her gift would save
other parents the devastating experience of losing their child as well.
Their precious little baby was born, but died
the next day. They named her Gabriel, after the angel who guards the gates of
heaven. Her fleeting life would affect one tiny boy in particular. For him her
gift was the difference between life and death.
Baby Paul Holc was not even born when it was discovered
that he had hypoplastic left heart syndrome and would need a heart transplant
to survive. Baby Paul was registered with the United Network for Organ Sharing
(UNOS), even though he was only at 36 weeks’ gestation. When Gabriel’s heart
became available the Holcs were notified to fly immediately to Loma Linda for
the transplant.
That baby, Paul Gabriel Bailey Holc, known to
the world affectionately as “The Incredible Holc,” became quite famous. In 1994
NBC made a movie, Heart of a Child, about his miraculous experience and the
courageous gift of life given to him by two grieving parents and one very special
child. Today “Baby” Paul Holc is an athletic 13-year-old with a passion for
life. To look at him you would never guess that he nearly died before he had
a chance to live.
“Some people work their whole lives to do something
memorable,” says Karen Schouten. “Gabriel gave of herself. That’s a pretty great
legacy to leave.”
And Paul is only one among 333 children from birth
to age 18 who have had heart transplants done by Loma Linda University Medical
Center. Maybe you’ve seen the picture of 18 of the littlest survivors of heart
transplants lined up in a row with Dr. Bailey. Some are grinning at the camera,
some slouching into their befuddled neighbors, some crying, but all alive.
In any case, it is safe to say that life is the
only gift that truly keeps on giving.
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DeWitt S. Williams is director of North American Health Ministries Department.
For more information: www.nadadventist.org/hm — Click on Coordinator for Organ Donations/Donor Sabbath